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Remembering the Tiniest Stars in the Sky

Tuesday, October 10, 2023

Remembering the Tiniest Stars in the Sky

When the golden hues of October leaves begin to blanket the streets of Colorado, many families think of pumpkin patches and crisp autumn air. For some, it's a month of reflection, a month of remembrance, and a month of love for the children they held in their dreams but never in their arms. October marks Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, and it is deeply personal for us at Kenzi's Causes. Our foundation emerged from the heartache Jessica Bachus, our founder, experienced when she gave birth to her stillborn baby, Kenzi. It's a grief that many parents know all too well, and it's a grief that often goes unspoken in society. But Jessica turned her profound sorrow into purpose, ensuring that Kenzi's light continues to shine bright by supporting under-resourced kids and families throughout Colorado. Pregnancy and infant loss is an unfortunate reality for many families. Whether it's an early miscarriage, a late-term loss, or the passing of an infant, the heartache remains incomparable. These parents grieve for a lifetime of memories they never got to make, first steps they'll never see, and tender moments that will never be shared. Yet, despite the frequency of these losses, they're seldom discussed openly. Parents often grapple with their grief in silence, sometimes unsure of how to share or who to turn to. This October, we aim to break that silence. By sharing our stories, we honor our angels and support one another. At Kenzi's Causes, we've witnessed the transformative power of empathy and community, of one parent nodding in understanding as another share their struggles. If you're a parent who has experienced this unique grief, we want you to know you're not alone. Your pain is valid, your loss is real, and your child, no matter how brief their time on Earth, has left an indelible mark on this world. [wd_hustle id="16" type="embedded"/] In the vast cosmos, stars may seem countless, but each one holds its unique brilliance. This October, let us remember our tiniest stars. Their light may have been brief, but it will forever illuminate our hearts.  
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Kenzi's Causes

In 2007, Jessica Bachus started Dolls for Daughters®, after her daughter Kenzi was stillborn. She created an annual holiday Toy Drive for Colorado children who would not otherwise have toys during the holidays. Today, Kenzi's Causes collects more than 100,000 toys, stocking stuffers, books, toothbrush/toothpaste kits, backpacks, lunch boxes and other items to change the lives of children in Colorado through our programs. At this annual event, families are also provided with community resources to help improve their lives and the lives of their children.

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